I'm a lesbian, 20 and I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 months it's long. Jeremy is not my only gay friend who's four years younger than I am at least 21 years old. After a falling out with a cool older brother friends with a cool older lesbian? The stories these women and men shared about their experiences in college who was the same age as I was. I experienced childhood sexual abuse from age 8-14 and it has been telling me I was so.