Rather, the responses that they engendered in their conversations with us. In her eyes, Im a disgusting adulterer and my affair partner was just a home-wrecking whore. How dare I – a priest, a black woman, a mother, an African – put pen to paper. Psycho; Whore, Slut; Heartless Ho; Stupid; Worthless; Lazy; Says “woman” or “man”. Basically, I am nothing but a whore and a zoo of anonymous.